As of tomorrow, I will have three people named Maria Mendoza on Charley. All from California. I don’t even know their middle names, so it’s just “Maria Mendoza” three times in a row in my listings. I also have:
4 Jose Gonzalezes
3 John Davises
3 Michael Johnsons
3 Jose Lopezes
3 Juan Rodriguezes
3 Jerry Smiths
2 Michael Blacks
2 Robert Browns
2 Steven Clarks
2 Jose Cruzes
2 Michael Gordons
2 Claudia Guillens (though to be fair they’re mother and daughter)
2 James Harrises
2 William Hendersons
2 William Henrys
2 Thomas Jameses
2 Joshua Johnsons
2 Theresa Johnsons
2 William Joneses
2 Michael Maddens
2 Barbara Martins
2 Joseph Martins
2 Michael McLaughlins
2 Joseph McStays (father and son)
2 Grace Reapps (mother and daughter)
2 James Peterses
2 Lawrence Powells
2 James Robinsons
2 Jose Rodriguezes
2 Harold Simpsons
2 James Smiths
2 John Smiths
2 Robin Smiths
2 John Taylors
2 John Wagners
2 Cheryl Williamses
2 David Williamses
2 Jimmy Williamses
2 Larry Williamses
2 Randy Williamses
2 Jennifer Wilsons
2 William Wrights
That’s how big and annoying the problem is. And there’s probably some more I missed.
For awhile I had two Anthony Davises, two Jose Hernandezes, two Samantha Garcias, two Amy Johnsons, two Brian Joneses, two David Millers, two Karla Rodriguezes, two Miguel Romeros, two James Thompsons and two Kimberly Thompsons but one of each got removed.
How I deal with it: if the second MP has a middle name or middle initial, I go with that. Like, I’ll have good_meaghan_elizabeth or good_meaghan_e. If they don’t have a middle name, I go with good2_meaghan. Sometimes I make an exception. Like, I have reapp_grace and reapp_gracie, since the child’s nickname was Gracie. Or for juniors I sometimes use mcstay_josephj.
Once I had a case where a mother and her four, maybe five daughters disappeared (I forget the exact details, it was back in the MPCCN days), and every single one of the little girls was named Mary. They had different middle names, but still. Imagine when they got old enough to receive mail!
When I take over the world and become Supreme Dictator For Life, I will require people with a common last name like Smith or Brown or Rodriguez to take an uncommon first name. Something like Abijah or Quebec or Ghislaine. If they want to use a common first name, they have to hyphenate their last name. I would also forbid people to give their children the exact same names as themselves — give them a different middle name at least. Like my grandfather and father: both are called Charles, but Grandpa was Charles Henry and Dad is Charles William. This would prevent a lot of paperwork problems.