I’ll be preoccupied this weekend and early next week

So on Saturday I’m going back to Wisconsin, because that night I’m due to deliver a speech to a non-profit group at their fundraiser. I am a little nervous but it should be loads of fun and they’re actually paying me!

And then I stay overnight at a hotel there, and then drive back on Sunday. Then on Monday at six o’clock in the morning (ugh) I’m reporting to the hospital where I’m getting a minor elective surgery done. Specifically, I’m getting my tubes tied, because I hate children and babies and can’t afford them anyway. I should be out of recovery and heading home by noon or so, but I suppose I’ll probably be feeling a bit down and out for a day or two after that.

So things may be quiet around here for a few days, is what I’m saying.

20 thoughts on “I’ll be preoccupied this weekend and early next week

  1. christie groves September 12, 2019 / 10:39 pm

    Good Luck with the speech, and the tubes. I emailed you!

  2. Amanda September 13, 2019 / 2:06 am

    I also want to get my tubes tied at some point in the future, for exactly the same reasons you listed above. Good luck with both the speech and the surgery! Take all the time you need away from Charley to recover; myself and others will be here whenever you return. 💚

  3. Richard - Netherl. September 13, 2019 / 3:36 am

    Oh Meaghan, i soooooo love your honesty!!!! 🙂

  4. MJ September 13, 2019 / 5:13 am

    Good luck with your surgery! I hope someone records your speech as I would love to watch/hear it. Safe travels!!

  5. marsyao September 13, 2019 / 9:46 am

    I found some extra information relate to Judith Carol Hofferman at Fairfax underground forum (http://www.fairfaxunderground.com/forum/read/2/1535563/page-1.html)
    In 1980 Judith (Judy) Hofferman went missing. It was a cold and snowy night… Her car was later found at Dulles Airport. There has been no trace of her since. All checks on her Social Security Number and Credit Cards have shown absolutely no activity.

    There has been no mention in the media, no search efforts for this young mother of two small children… A boy (Approx age 7) and toddler girl (Approx age 5).
    Judy was married at the time to a Fairfax Attorney whom she met in High School in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
    . Judy’s parents had passed away in a car accident, leaving a sizable inheritance to Judy, their sole heir. From all accounts, Judy used her inheritance to put her husband through Law School, and to build her dream home in the desirable Washington DC suburb of Fairfax Station. The over 4000 square foot home situated on several quiet, wooded acres was the last place anyone has seen Judy alive. Judy loved animals, and raised parrots, pedigreed cats, had a German Shepard, and even had a goat, she was all to happy to share the fresh milk with you if you were so inclined.
    Judy not only raised Cats and Birds, but if she sold an animal to you, she also continued to offer her expert advice and support.
    I have always searched online for Judy, and have found it very odd, that after 25 years when I first realized that there was absolutely no trace of any search efforts for this woman, even on missing persons websites such as “Namus” or the DOE Network… Not even a mention on Fairfax VA Police website… And then to make things even odder, everything I posted online was wiped away.
    I started posting, contacting the Cold Case Detective and doing all the research I could… I felt so sorry for Judy, and her children… Two young, innocent children that had the love of their mother… a sweet loving woman. Their lives were forever fractured by a completely self absorbed, selfish egotistical monster… They were told their mother simply left them in the middle of the night, to pursuit a life of chasing parrots in the Amazon… Yet there was no sign of any flights booked in any Airport… Those that new Judy, new she wouldn’t, that she couldn’t have left her two beautiful children, or her beloved animals.
    Thank you for taking the time to read this post! if you have any information on this case please contact the Fairfax County VA Cold Case unit. and share on this site.

  6. Ivana Lucy September 13, 2019 / 1:47 pm

    Have a good time in Wisconsin and post your speech!!! Have a good luck with your surgery, you will recover soon!! All the best

  7. Michael Cartier September 13, 2019 / 10:21 pm

    Timothy Jason Smart body found

  8. Michael Cartier September 13, 2019 / 10:25 pm

    Good luck in Wisconsin. My prayers and good thoughts will be with you.

  9. Sonya September 14, 2019 / 12:07 am

    Good luck with the speech, I bet you’ll give a fantastic one, and good luck getting your tubes tied, and may you have a speedy recovery. 🙂

  10. RH September 14, 2019 / 1:06 am

    I cannot believe you announced this publicly-without any shame. I will no longer support this blog.

    • Meaghan September 14, 2019 / 9:39 am

      Uh, okay. Bye then.

  11. Leslie Ewald September 14, 2019 / 7:12 am

    Wishing you a safe trip to Wisconsin and a speedy recovery from the surgery.

  12. Mia September 14, 2019 / 10:25 pm

    Hate is kind of a strong word, don’t you think? I mean, it’s your blog, your life, but considering your page, in part, serves to solve the crimes that are committed against children… I don’t know. Nothing wrong with not wanting to ha e kids, and kudos to you for doing something about it, but I feel like hate should be reserved for people who actually deserve it.

    • J September 14, 2019 / 11:27 pm

      It’s better to be honest than to be one of the people that conceive a child and the child is neglected, abused, starved, or just disappears like some children on this site. Kudos to you Meaghan for your honesty and taking care of things. Wish more people had your sense of responsibility.

    • Meaghan September 15, 2019 / 12:09 am

      It was more like an exaggeration for comedic effect. I’m not like Agatha Trunchbull or anything. I just find young children annoying and don’t want to be around them and don’t think I’d make a good parent.

      • Mia September 15, 2019 / 10:35 pm

        Gotcha. Thanks for clarifying. I have kids of my own and find most kids (even my own at times!) to be irritating.

  13. Michelle September 15, 2019 / 11:18 am

    It was wonderful to meet you last night and hear you speak. Good luck tomorrow!!!

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